Dude Looks Like A Lady- And Other Observations

Blogger Commentary:

Last night I logged onto the dating site as my “female” profile. I posted my “legs” photo and again my inbox blew up! I decided to have some fun with it. I chatted with a bunch of the guys for several hours.  The following are a few comments and observations I would like to make:

Most men are illiterate, knuckle-dragging Neanderthals! They can’t formulate a sentence to save their lives. They obviously haven’t heard of the theory that if you want people to be interested in you, you first need to be genuinely interested in them.  The men I encountered last night were interested in seeing what THE REST OF ME looks like, They were interested in video chatting, texting me, calling me- all presumably to get me in a position to where they can be inappropriate. I had no part of that [obviously].

I let the men know that the reason I don’t have a photo of my face online is because of “all the bad experiences I have had” [lie]. I further let them know that it is obvious that I am not overweight and that I am in great condition [refer to legs photo] and that I want someone to get to know ME as a person, not distracted by what I look like.

I called multiple men out on the “lines” they were trying to feed me. One that stands out is this guy messages me and says that he wants me to text him a photo of me and that he PROMISES that he will delete my phone number. LMAO Whatever!  IDIOTS!!

One of the realizations I’m beginning to see is that single men and women both want very similar things. They all want love, affection, and intimacy. And in the online world, “packaging and presentation” is EVERYTHING! You cannot come up to a woman online (or anywhere for that matter) with the attitude of they OWE you a picture or anything. Nobody OWES you ANYTHING! You cannot think that you are THAT good that you can just come out and ask for sex talk, photos, or anything like that right away. The “ASK AND YE SHALL RECEIVE” mantra is void in this instance.

After having posed as a woman online and experienced briefly what women experience daily in the online world, I have so much more respect and empathy for them and what they have to put up with. I just hope that these lessons will stay with me and that I will never come off to a woman the way that these men have in this experiment.

 

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